Every time I loose people in my life, I start to think about the causes,what i have done to them , by what I hurt them or underestimate them, but the problem is not me. I realized that there is no reason.
The only mistake I have done is that I treated them in a way more than they deserve. I have learned that I should think of myself and my future.
I should not take care of others anymore unless they prove that they are willing to do the same for me.
People did not notice the things we do for them until we stop doing them. And at this point they will realize the mistake the have done by ignoring you.
In life we never loose friends , we only learn who the true ones are. Friends or let us say true friends are willing to do everything that makes you happy.
unfortunately dear true friends are very rare. you can have tens of girls that they name themselves "friends" but honestly when it comes to real situations you'll be shocked that real friends diminished.
ReplyDeleteBeing kind and caring to others is never a mistake. The way you treat others reflect your traits and how you were raised. It is always a gain even with those who don't deserve. Someday they will realize that they've lost a treasure.
ReplyDeleteThe title should be quoted because it is 100% true, you should treat people the same way they treat you. What really surprise me is when you treat someone in the same way they treated you and they get offended!!!! Those kind of people should be ignored unit they realize your worth and value.
ReplyDeletesometimes, those kinds of friends make you feel that you are not good, you are the wrong person because you believed and did something that you shouldn't have done it with them, and this thing affects you badly and will make you re - think twice and more if you want to choose anew friend, or if you want to talk with them again.
ReplyDeleteMost of people passes their time searching for a true friend.with respect to me I think the better way is to not wain anything from anyone.
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